My divorce was quite possibly the most traumatic time I ever faced in my life- my own "Stepping off Point " after 17 plus years of marriage. I found myself sinking rapidly. I never thought this would happen to me, only others. I lost every desire to move forward on my own, even with life itself.
In one of my darkest moments, I began to cry out for help, then grace appeared .Sheila Robinson-Kiss rescued and guided me from losing myself. When we met, I knew instantly there was something much higher at work here. In her tireless efforts working with me, she presented me with a personal road map, where the destination was my true self. Along this beautiful road...I would uncover the gifts I had for so long buried. That destination was also the understanding that everything was going to be okay, that my own pain and suffering was part of the process of letting go, especially of self. It was part of the cleansing.
Sheila revealed to me that it didn't have to be as bad as I imagined. With her caring and unwavering guidance, along with a little work on my end and the proper road map, I learned how possible it was to have a loving exit. Thank you Sheila for helping me find the love for life and self! Don't forget to look closely into the the mirror one day...You may see your wings!
I had come to the realization that my marriage was over. To say I was broken is accurate. I had done everything possible but I struggled with taking the steps for a divorce. It was a daily battle and I was truly in fear of starting the process.
Sheila taught me the tools I needed to move forward and to help me stop the constant replaying in my head of all the pain and hurt. She helped me to ask and answer the right questions. I finally filed and successfully got my divorce granted!
I’m coming up on my 2 year divorce anniversary and I am beyond words how thankful I am that Sheila provided me with the guidance and support to carry it through. What I loved the most was that it was never pressure. It was all done at my pace and in my time. Sheila put the work in with me and I had to work just as hard. She told me I would be shocked at my transformation and I am Truly shocked. I had no idea I would be where I am today!! I am beyond proud and thankful. Best decision ever and I’m in such an amazing place for me and my children. My life is blessed and continuing only in the up direction.
I am Carmen Hernandez and will like to tell you a little bit about me. A few years ago I went through a traumatic divorced where I ended up feeling empty and lost.. After that I had a horrific car accident where I was having difficulty walking and talking- many broken bones. At that point I felt that my life didn't have any meaning. My children were away and I thought no one care about me. The great thing is that Sheila was there for me in both situations giving me support and walking me thru the process and never leaving me alone. I remember going to her office almost unable to walk and holding onto things to ease my pain. Sheila helped me to walk to my car. At that point I had my ex husband near bullying me and telling me how he was planning to take my kids away from me. I was crying and asking for God's guidance, while working with Mrs. Sheila. I can proudly say today I have a full custody of my kids and peace of mind because my ex is no longer bullying us and he is not bothering us anymore for almost two and a half years.
Mrs. Sheila's respect, kindness and guidance exceeded my expectations and thanks to her I am back to my regular routine working, walking, and dancing with my kids. We laugh loudly all the time. I am so happy to be in charge of my own life. My children are happy and we do weekly meetings to keep on top of any feelings we are experiencing. We have adjusted so good with the life and the creator is letting us live. I will be always grateful to Mrs. Sheila and her professionalism... we just love her Xoxoxoxoxo
Recognizing that it was time for me to move on was one of the most difficult decisions I had to make. Deep down I knew it was time but I kept second guessing myself. I had been living a lie for so long and one day made the decision to go to seek support to see if I was making the right decision.
My work with Sheila validated my decision, she made me feel like I wasn't crazy and my decision was sound and in my best interest. If I didn't go to Sheila I probably would still be having my internal battle about my marriage. The work we did together allowed me to wake up and take charge of my life. It hasn't been easy but I am happy and have no regrets. Thank you, Sheila for your consistency throughout one of the most difficult times in my life.
On first meeting Sheila Robinson Kiss there is a connection of mind, soul and light. You arrive on your quest broken and desperate
Every breath a chore...every question "Why"?
And like an intricate puzzle you are put back together again one piece at a time. Through sheer determination tears and guidance you realize that the magic wand you've been praying for arrives in homework ,self realization and bearing your truth. The answer is Love. It always was.Through forgiveness and guidance you love yourself again and Sheila is there like a true Oracle lighting the way.
Thank you Sheila for your wisdom & grace. Thank you for your patience and words of encouragement that are embedded on my mind. Thank you for your writings which always carry me to an aha moment.
My divorce and the events around it were devastating. Although the hardship began far before the day I left, the downward spiral seemed never ending. I'm not sure where I would be without Sheila’s intervention(s). She was a Godsend. Although there are still some very trying times, through Sheila’s tools of support I have learned to work through most of them. There seems to be some ending in sight. I can't pretend to ever make sense of what exactly happened but I've learned how to live with the fact that I will never know. More importantly I learned how to live again and am slowly beginning to stand on my own two feet. There were times when I struggled to open my eyes and get out of bed. Divorce is far more difficult than most can imagine, at least in my circumstances. I often wonder what the outcome could have been had connected with Sheila in earlier phases.
After I decided to get a divorce views of caring family and friends were often interjected. As a result, I felt a need for impartial insight .
Shelia's guidance has been immeasurable. She has helped enhance my mental stamina and tenacity during this process. Her work has also caused me to focus beyond the now and see the amazing possibilities on the horizon.
-An Empowered Client
I arrived at Sheila's office at a "Stepping-Off Point". She held a safe space for me at a pivotal moment in my life. She has joined with me in re-discovering, healing and transforming parts of me I have forgotten along the way or have hidden due to life's difficult, but beautiful life lessons. She has helped me heal all the scar tissue collected through this journey and continues to hold safe space, whilst navigating this life.
I believe Sheila is one of my guardian angels here on earth. I would not know where I would be if she was not in this journey with me. In my darkest moments, Sheila has always been present to help me remember I am the one who can turn the light on!
Thank you, Sheila for holding that mirror up for me when I most, purely and honestly needed it.
Thank you for showing me "courage, giving me clarity and holding me honest to my conviction on this journey. "
Sheila's services have been such a crucial part of my process as my husband and I are separating.
Once we got our heads around what was happening we had to tell our children. I was so scared to tell them and ruin their lives. Shelia gave us scripting and support as we talked to our children. Although, we were all sad the love was still there. Thank you for helping us make a potentially tragic situation into one that is headed to have a healthy outcome.
Mrs. Robinson-Kiss is truly a gift from God. Her professionalism and experience is unmatched. Not only is she amazing, patient and knowledgeable but has your best interest at heart. Because of her, I’ve become completely empowered to the point that I was able to pay it forward and help others.
She helped me navigate and discover who I am, and also helped me to be more aware of things. Her programs are invaluable. If you’re looking for someone who will be transparent and honest with you she is the person. She will guide you and help you transition into your next stage of your life. She will provide you the tools you will need to help you cope through different situations as you journey through life.